So you might have heard of one of the most popular programs available around relationship issues today — it’s called Text Your Ex Back and is available on the Internet from many sources, including the original website established by Mike Fiore. Check out Texting Your Ex Partner for more information.
Over the years, of course, because it’s such a popular subject, many people have copied his information and presented what they call “review copies” – which in fact resemble nothing more than a cheap parody of the original material, and as, you can conclude fairly easily when you look at them, are designed to do nothing other than sell the program.
I have written a site which I believe is significantly different, and significantly better than this — it’s called Texting To Love and it’s a site whose purpose is not to review the program, but to actually tell you what’s in it, so that you can decide for yourself whether or not you want to buy into it.
So before we go any further, one of the points that you need to know is that Text Your Ex Back is a program that is designed not only for people who’ve ended a relationship, but also for people who have been “dumped”.
There are 11 modules in the basic program, which cover all aspects of relationship breakup and make-up — and should, hopefully, allow you to get back with your ex-partner.
The first module is called Text your ex back introduction — and this offers ways to deal with the emotional pain you may well be feeling after a breakup your ex-boyfriend or a breakup with your ex-girlfriend.
That of course is extremely useful information, but it’s not going to re-establish the relationship — what you need for that is Module 2, which explains clearly and simply why breakups actually take place. Now that you’ve been dumped (or you have done the dumping), no doubt you’re having some kind of conversation with yourself about your break up. Module 2 of Text your ex back will help you understand that conversation and sort out your real feelings.
The third module is called The Big Goal. This is all about discovering precisely what you now wish to take from the relationship — that may be nothing, it may be knowledge and information, it may be understanding, or of course it may be clarity that you actually want your relationship back.
Module 4 what will help you get ready to process your desire to have a new relationship with your old partner. And, make no mistake about it, that’s exactly what you need to have — for, if you have the same relationship again, the outcome is very likely to be the same — a breakup.
Module 5 is called Text Judo — a rather strange name, but what it means is using your ex’s emotions to convince them that actually you’re the one (and only) person that they need in their life right now.
Module 6 is called Across The Bow, and this represents the starting point of a serious attempt to use SMS text messages on your mobile phone or tablet to reconcile with your ex-partner using the proven methods described in the program.
It may seem very strange to use text messages to communicate with an ex-partner, but there is actually a great deal of sense in it — it’s unemotional, it’s factual, and it can convey information in a way that perhaps is wiser (after a breakup, at least!) than seeing someone face-to-face.
Mike Fiore gives you all the information in modules 7, 8, 9 and 10, that you may need to explain how to communicate – in this particular form of messaging – with an ex-partner to achieve the outcome that you desire. (Getting back together, yes?)
It’s not something that you should attempt without the guidance and support of Text Your Ex Back, but done correctly, what you’re going to find is – hopefully – that the material included in these 11 moduless, each of which comes with a video introduction, will lead you in a natural series of steps from breakup to make up.
The idea is that you work on the modules at the rate of one a day — in doing so, you’re going to find that Mike Fiore provides simple instructions about why SMS messages actually represent a good way to repair the fractures in your relationship.
You’re also going to discover why text messages can be used to gradually increase intimacy and connection with your ex-partner.
It’s entirely possible, of course, that your ex may not see things the way you do, and perhaps they will respond with anger or hostility — if so, That Text Your Ex Back provides you with a way of defusing their anger and hostility so that you can actually get them back onto your side.
Of course the material is in an e-book, on MP3, and on video recording, so you can watch it all over and over again — but the point that I really like about Text Your Ex Back is that the purpose of every module is described in detail, so that you’re never in any doubt about what you should be doing next — and that is true regardless of what’s going on at any time between you and your ex-boyfriend or you and your ex-girlfriend. In short, it comes highly recommended.
In addition, you have the support of the text your ex back community, which is a fantastic resource and should certainly provide you with all the support that you could possibly do desire